Saturday, January 12, 2013
Eureka!
Eureka! An expression of triumph concerning a discovery of great value. My Eureka is my newly found talents and my love for life! I am looking forward with excitement to my book soon being completed!
If you are interested in writing a book you might want to check out How to Write a Book here
If you want to know more about our travels you can check in at these blogs
http://rollingworkers.blogspot.com
http://www.noifonlys.com/lus-blog
I am loving exploring my talents and developing them into revenue building opportunities. This year I hope to be able to get my book published and then to be off to publish others. I am developing my story telling and using it with my public speaking. I love finding and developing talents that I never knew I had! While my time is still controlled by my husband's medical needs and doctor's appointments, I am continuing to explore my talents and opportunities. If you have ever wondered what your talents are, I invite you to explore the free
Power of Clarity Package by Brian Tracy.
Today's medical advances are so amazing! Who would have thought that they could retrain the brain? My husband is undergoing brain retraining and meeting with a new group with others that have brain injuries as well. I think it is really great that he now can meet and support other Veterans who have suffered like injuries. He really is enjoying the support and comradery.
2013 promises to be our best year in a long time. Hope your 2013 will be filled with powerful positive changes in your life!
Saturday, October 23, 2010
What is stopping you from success?
"Often times the obstacles that we come up in our own minds will give us excuses to not succeed! What is holding us back from success? The best indicator of success in the making is in being passionate about your business, hobby or project." ~ Lu Swart
Friday, October 22, 2010
Stop beating yourself up
By Lu Swart
Max living published my article. So I thought I would repost it here for any who did not get a chance to see it.
Why do you keep beating yourself up? Negativity isn’t productive, but you can turn it around.
For instance, try throwing yourself a “Hate Party.”
Grab a piece of paper and write down every single thing that you hate about your life. Everything!
Now look at that list. What can you just stop doing, thinking or being? Whatever it is, just stop it.
What’s left on the your list? Decide what you hate the most. What can you do to change it?
Now figure out the steps to change it.
What’s Causing Your Headache?
I once saw a boy hitting his head repeatedly.
I asked him, “What are you doing?”
“Hitting my head.”
“I know you are hitting your head. But why?”
“I dunno. That’s just what I do when I get upset.” Then he said, “I have a headache.”
“Do you know how to stop getting headaches?” I asked.
“I dunno.”
“Quit hitting your head!”
Sometimes it’s just that simple. But not always.
Don’t Let Others Define You
Julie has been struggling to lose weight, but slowly it’s coming off.
One day, Julie and I agreed to go on a lunch walk. First we had to drop something off at her sister’s place, so we decided to do that on our walk too.
When we arrived at her sister’s house, her sister asked where we parked. I told her we walked. She looked at Julie and said, “This is a joke, right?”
Julie said, “No. We walked.”
“Why do you say that?” I asked her sister.
“Well, Julie just doesn’t do things like that. I was surprised,” she replied.
“We’re doing it to tone up as we lose weight,” I explained.
“Oh well. That won’t last long. Julie has always weighed a lot and that isn’t ever going to change.”
I saw Julie’s face fall. Then she mentioned that we had to get going.
Later Julie and I went out for a light lunch. I was dismayed to hear her order a large banana split. She ate her banana split with tears streaming down her face.
“What are you doing?” I asked her.
“I am beating myself up because I will never lose weight.”
“No!” I protested. “You are beating yourself up with your sister’s reality. It is only your reality if you allow it to be.”
Are you beating yourself up? Then, quite simply, STOP IT! If you’re doing a self-defeating action, thought or saying, quit it!
*******************************
Lu Swart is the owner of Surf N Fun LLC, life coach, motivator, and writer. A happily married mother of four sons, her goals are to “make a difference every day of my life, value every minute of my life, live life to the fullest, and do the work I love.”
Max living published my article. So I thought I would repost it here for any who did not get a chance to see it.
Why do you keep beating yourself up? Negativity isn’t productive, but you can turn it around.
For instance, try throwing yourself a “Hate Party.”
Grab a piece of paper and write down every single thing that you hate about your life. Everything!
Now look at that list. What can you just stop doing, thinking or being? Whatever it is, just stop it.
What’s left on the your list? Decide what you hate the most. What can you do to change it?
Now figure out the steps to change it.
What’s Causing Your Headache?
I once saw a boy hitting his head repeatedly.
I asked him, “What are you doing?”
“Hitting my head.”
“I know you are hitting your head. But why?”
“I dunno. That’s just what I do when I get upset.” Then he said, “I have a headache.”
“Do you know how to stop getting headaches?” I asked.
“I dunno.”
“Quit hitting your head!”
Sometimes it’s just that simple. But not always.
Don’t Let Others Define You
Julie has been struggling to lose weight, but slowly it’s coming off.
One day, Julie and I agreed to go on a lunch walk. First we had to drop something off at her sister’s place, so we decided to do that on our walk too.
When we arrived at her sister’s house, her sister asked where we parked. I told her we walked. She looked at Julie and said, “This is a joke, right?”
Julie said, “No. We walked.”
“Why do you say that?” I asked her sister.
“Well, Julie just doesn’t do things like that. I was surprised,” she replied.
“We’re doing it to tone up as we lose weight,” I explained.
“Oh well. That won’t last long. Julie has always weighed a lot and that isn’t ever going to change.”
I saw Julie’s face fall. Then she mentioned that we had to get going.
Later Julie and I went out for a light lunch. I was dismayed to hear her order a large banana split. She ate her banana split with tears streaming down her face.
“What are you doing?” I asked her.
“I am beating myself up because I will never lose weight.”
“No!” I protested. “You are beating yourself up with your sister’s reality. It is only your reality if you allow it to be.”
Are you beating yourself up? Then, quite simply, STOP IT! If you’re doing a self-defeating action, thought or saying, quit it!
*******************************
Lu Swart is the owner of Surf N Fun LLC, life coach, motivator, and writer. A happily married mother of four sons, her goals are to “make a difference every day of my life, value every minute of my life, live life to the fullest, and do the work I love.”
Cool new tools and ideas from Tammy
A 15 second commercial talk- ching ching
Are you married to your job or are you open minded?
Commanding the prospects brains to listen
1. I have some good news and some bad news - people will freeze
examples
I have some good news and some bad news. The good news is you can stay at home and create a serious residual income
BUT the bad news is your boss and employee’s will miss you
The bad news is the economy is in the toilet
BUT the good news is home based businesses are on an increase and thousands of people like yourself are creating part time incomes working from home
The bad news is our taxes will continue going up with the economy BUT the good news is working a home base business you will have many tax breaks.
1. There are two types of people in the world - people will freeze
examples
There are two types of people, those who get by on only one pay check or those who get multiple pay checks working for themselves
There are 2 types of people, those who are not open and live mediocre lives and those who step out of their comfort zones and create a serious residual income working from home
There are 2 types of people, those who exchange money for time and those who create leveraged income and make money while they sleep
There are 2 types of mom’s, those who go to work and have daycare raise their children and those who learn how to build a serious business from home being their for their children and going to school activities with their children while other mom’s can’t get out of work
There are 2 types of people, those who procrastinate and NEVER get ahead and those who take control of their lives working from home creating a huge lifestyle change.
1. I just found out - brain freeze- you got their attention
examples
I just found out how you can create residual income part time while you continue to work your job
I just found out how you can fire your boss
I just found out how you can retire 10 years earlier
I just found out how you can turn back the aging process
I just found out how you can build your dream home
I just found out how you can stay at home with your children and creating a serious income
I just found out how you can get a better work out with half the recovery time
I just found out
Create sequences to bring people back in the conversation
1. There is a catch - another brain freeze
example
Our business allows you to stay at home with your family while you build a full time income
BUT there is a catch maybe your husband or children don’t want you home all the time
We teach people how to retire 10 years earlier BUT there is a catch, you may be golfing and traveling more to kill time.
What is your job description? How do you get prospects to sign up as a customer or an associate?
How does the human mind make decisions? Everyone tends to shut down before the presentation even begins.
Conscious MIND - can think , it separates us from every organism in the body - the conscious mind is brilliant
Subconscious MIND - can not think - it holds on to past programming, it makes your break down and cry watching a sad movie, it is what makes the body function- breathing, makes our hearts beat, it does thousands of things at the same time
ALL DECISIONS are made by the subconscious mind - our non thinking part of the brain
Our subconscious will decide seconds into a conversation. People have made their decisions about us or the opportunity before we start our presentation
Humans make decisions based on NO facts
RED ALARM/ SALES ALARM phrases -
Would you be interested in
I just got involved in/with -
Replace these with
5. Would it be OK if? Asking permission will open up people
examples
Would it be OK if, you could fire your boss?
Would it be OK if, you avoided the traffic and worked from home?
Would it be OK if, you could turn back the aging process?
Would it be OK if, you retired 10 years earlier?
1. Most people .....
Examples
Most people hate their jobs
Most people hate getting older
Most people want to live longer
Most people want to vacation more often
1. Everybody knows that.....
Everybody knows that the economy in Canada is hurting
Everybody knows that their is no 40 year plan anymore
Everybody knows that
1. Everybody says .....
Everybody says they want to retire earlier
Everybody says they want to make more income
Everybody says they want to travel more
Everybody says they want more for their families
Are you married to your job or are you open minded?
Commanding the prospects brains to listen
1. I have some good news and some bad news - people will freeze
examples
I have some good news and some bad news. The good news is you can stay at home and create a serious residual income
BUT the bad news is your boss and employee’s will miss you
The bad news is the economy is in the toilet
BUT the good news is home based businesses are on an increase and thousands of people like yourself are creating part time incomes working from home
The bad news is our taxes will continue going up with the economy BUT the good news is working a home base business you will have many tax breaks.
1. There are two types of people in the world - people will freeze
examples
There are two types of people, those who get by on only one pay check or those who get multiple pay checks working for themselves
There are 2 types of people, those who are not open and live mediocre lives and those who step out of their comfort zones and create a serious residual income working from home
There are 2 types of people, those who exchange money for time and those who create leveraged income and make money while they sleep
There are 2 types of mom’s, those who go to work and have daycare raise their children and those who learn how to build a serious business from home being their for their children and going to school activities with their children while other mom’s can’t get out of work
There are 2 types of people, those who procrastinate and NEVER get ahead and those who take control of their lives working from home creating a huge lifestyle change.
1. I just found out - brain freeze- you got their attention
examples
I just found out how you can create residual income part time while you continue to work your job
I just found out how you can fire your boss
I just found out how you can retire 10 years earlier
I just found out how you can turn back the aging process
I just found out how you can build your dream home
I just found out how you can stay at home with your children and creating a serious income
I just found out how you can get a better work out with half the recovery time
I just found out
Create sequences to bring people back in the conversation
1. There is a catch - another brain freeze
example
Our business allows you to stay at home with your family while you build a full time income
BUT there is a catch maybe your husband or children don’t want you home all the time
We teach people how to retire 10 years earlier BUT there is a catch, you may be golfing and traveling more to kill time.
What is your job description? How do you get prospects to sign up as a customer or an associate?
How does the human mind make decisions? Everyone tends to shut down before the presentation even begins.
Conscious MIND - can think , it separates us from every organism in the body - the conscious mind is brilliant
Subconscious MIND - can not think - it holds on to past programming, it makes your break down and cry watching a sad movie, it is what makes the body function- breathing, makes our hearts beat, it does thousands of things at the same time
ALL DECISIONS are made by the subconscious mind - our non thinking part of the brain
Our subconscious will decide seconds into a conversation. People have made their decisions about us or the opportunity before we start our presentation
Humans make decisions based on NO facts
RED ALARM/ SALES ALARM phrases -
Would you be interested in
I just got involved in/with -
Replace these with
5. Would it be OK if? Asking permission will open up people
examples
Would it be OK if, you could fire your boss?
Would it be OK if, you avoided the traffic and worked from home?
Would it be OK if, you could turn back the aging process?
Would it be OK if, you retired 10 years earlier?
1. Most people .....
Examples
Most people hate their jobs
Most people hate getting older
Most people want to live longer
Most people want to vacation more often
1. Everybody knows that.....
Everybody knows that the economy in Canada is hurting
Everybody knows that their is no 40 year plan anymore
Everybody knows that
1. Everybody says .....
Everybody says they want to retire earlier
Everybody says they want to make more income
Everybody says they want to travel more
Everybody says they want more for their families
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Changes are in the making
Hello! Welcome to Surf N Fun LLC.
We are going through many changes upgrading and deleting our tools. We strive to be continually growing and improving both personally and professionally. We hope to keep the best tools available for our use and yours.
We are going through many changes upgrading and deleting our tools. We strive to be continually growing and improving both personally and professionally. We hope to keep the best tools available for our use and yours.
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